I recently have decided to rededicate myself as a stay at home mom. What do I mean by this? I want to be proactive, create environments that will benefit my children in several different faucets, and give them the positive attention they hunger. I don’t think I had stopped being a good mother when I decided this but I had started letting day to day pass by doing what was comfortable and easy. Just getting through the day as it comes my way.
Here is how I am rededicating myself as a stay at home mom:
- weekly crafts
- planted a vegetable/flower garden with the girls
- heavily involve girls (individually) in one dinner preparation a week
- trying to decrease TV viewing
So I have been doing weekly crafts for two weeks now. The first week we created the garden. The girls shopped for materials with me, picked out the seeds, filled the garden with soil, water on a regular basis. All around it is a wonderful learning experience.
This is the day we created it. WE now have corn, lettuce, cucumber, strawberry, zinnia, pumpkin all sprouting in there (I know that is too much but it was what the girls wanted).



The cinder blocks is a trick my sister taught me. In the holes you plant invasive herbs. Well that is not what made it in our holes, but the girls grasp which seeds are which with the divide. This week’s craft was a bird seed wreath (thanks for the idea Amy). It was a dud and we ended up with a pile of seed on the slide outside. I do have quite a few ideas for future weeks that I am eager to do.
The dinner planning has been the biggest hit thus far. The girls had been begging me every night that I cooked to help out, well with my Zumba schedule and Brady’s ballet on Friday there are a lot of nights that I am in a rush to cook so I ended up yelling at them to get out of the kitchen more then they deserved. They are trying to help, why am I yelling at them? So I read about a family that lets each kid in the fam have a night where they completely decide the dinner menu. Well I took it one step further. Both of the girls get a night so completely decide the menu and then they help with every step of the preparation, table setting, and clean up. Brady has Monday and Reese has Wednesday. This has been a HUGE hit. Brady has had tacos both weeks. Reese’s first week she requested “strawberries, lettuce and chicken” this past week she wanted “strawberries and pancakes.” Now they know they cook on their one special night a week and mommy does it every other night. I wish I would have thought of this earlier.


Lastly, the TV has been the hardest. I like it as a babysitter of sorts. It helps when I need a shower or have phone calls to make, etc. So they are in the habit of one hour a day. They know that means two Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. So when I say no TV lets go to the beach, I get the response, we can go to the beach AFTER two MMCH shows. UGH! I am trying to keep them busy, but honestly they need the wind down time too. So I am having an internal debate about TV and what is my stance about how much the girls should watch.
That is all for now, I am sure there will be future posts about a weekly craft or update on the garden!