The girls were up early this morning, 4ish. Karl, being the awesome dad/husband that he is, was up with them.
On the way to Brady’s preschool, Reese fell asleep in the car. So that I wouldn’t waste gas driving all the way home, I parked in a nearby mall’s parking lot and sat in the car for two hours while Reese napped. Luckily I had a novel in the car.
In all the time I had sitting in the car, I was thinking about sitting there and how really I didn’t mind it one bit. It made be think about the things I happily do as a mom to provide for my kids, things that other people label as ‘sacrifices’ yet I don’t see them that way.
Here is the small list I came up with:
-sitting in the van, so my kids can finish their much needed nap
-listening to the same CDs over and over again, one because they love that music, two so they aren’t exposed to the inappropriate music on the radio (honestly, I have been driving in the car by myself, and find I don’t enjoy the radio as much, and end up listening to those CDs)
-sleeping on the floor on the girls’ bedroom to make them feel safe enough to fall asleep
-eating my meals after theirs, because I have to address their needs
-cleaning up water from the entire bathroom floor, because when I feel asleep when they were watching their TV show, they decided to have a water fight
-taking twice as long to cook dinner because I have little ‘helpers’
-folding the laundry more than once because again I have little helpers
Honestly I think being a stay at home mom allows me to have my one focus on my kids, which in turn allows me to enjoy tasks that others might call sacrifices. I hope that when I have to return to work, I will still be able to enjoy all tasks like this.
So moms out there, young and old, what are the small things you enjoy that others might see as a sacrifice?